In the last few days I learned about three fellow pilots that have lost or are losing their battles with cancer.
A good friend of mine from the Air Force will be put on hospice care soon to make his last days here on earth as comfortable as possible. His doctors recently determined he cannot handle any more chemo treatments. It’s been four years, around 90 rounds of chemo, radiation and several surgeries.
Another UPS pilot I know is battling a rare form of cancer called esthesioneuroblastoma and the stark reality of this cancer is that he will likely lose his vision entirely within 6-12 months. Furthermore, his life expectancy is perhaps two to three more years barring a miracle.
Just recently, a pilot I know passed away from cancer. A friend of mine was by his bedside during the last moments of his life. Fortunately, he died in peace knowing that he did all he could to make sure his family was taken care of after he was gone. He was happy and had no regrets my friend said to me.
I didn’t write all of this to depress or upset anyone. These situations are difficult to comprehend and it’s hard to know what we can do for our friends and loved ones in these difficult moments. I wrote this article because I know there are things our friends would want us to learn from their terrible circumstances.
For starters, (and I am preaching to myself here) I think they would want us to slow down a little, spend a little more time trying to create special moments, maybe spend a little less time working and striving. I’m very much a planner in everything I do and sometimes I struggle with being “in the moment.” I have a fear of possibly missing out on that next achievement, the next goal, and sadly, maybe even the next dollar. Maybe I should trade in my next three-day trip for a lesser paying “two-day” so I can see my daughter’s homecoming festivities at her school. What is it worth in dollar numbers to see my daughter during this special moment? Which is more valuable to her? I’m pretty sure I know how my friends battling cancer would answer that question.
Of course, there are other practical things we must do now in order to make sure that if we were in similar circumstances we could also leave this world with no regrets:
1. Work to create special moments and great memories.
2. Get the appropriate amount and the right type of life insurance for your circumstances.
3. Make sure your Last Will and Testament and your beneficiaries are up to date.
4. Get a financial plan.
Finally, I am going to give up my three day trip for a two-day in order to go to my daughter’s school homecoming festivities. It’s the right thing to do and when my time on this earth has come to an end, I want to be able to say, “I don’t have any regrets”.
All the best,
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November 25, 2019